Make the sauce: Mix mayonaise, sweet chili sauce, lime juice, sriracha, and honey. Set aside.
Make the slaw: Toss cabbage, carrot, green onion, lime juice, and salt together. Keep it crunchy.
Coat the scallops: Pat the scallops very dry. Toss them with cornstarch, garlic powder, paprika, salt and pepper. Dip into beaten egg, then toss in panko.
Get them crispy: Heat oil in a large skillet over medium-high heat. Add scallops in a single layer and cook for 1-2 minutes per side, until golden and just cooked through.
Build the tacos: Warm the tortillas. Add slaw, crispy scallops, drizzle of bang bang sauce, cilantro and pickled jalapeno.